Something else that bothers me about getting my hair styled by a stylist is the assumption of some that since I have, in their opinion, "WILD curly hair" that the BIGGER, WILDER, and CRAZIER they style it the better it will look! I've literally had stylist gently diffuse my hair into nice ringlets only to ruin them by racking, shacking, and mussing with them until they are a frizzy huge mess. WHY???!!!!!