Hello akinyi

I'm 3C and 4A so I have both textures throughout my hair. If a guy is judging you because of your hair there is no reason as to why you should feel bad or hurt. Overcome it by finding friends that don't judge by hair texture. Personally I've been finally wearing my huge hair in all of it's glory and I've been getting compliments all over and even when I don't, it doesn't matter. As long as you are happy with your hair then that should be enough. The guy that takes the time to know you first and foremost and then your hair will become a guy worth having for life (As a friend or more )