LadyV, I don't think you were "weak." It's a tough call when a family member is in trouble and needs money.

On topic: I think it should depend entirely on the circumstances. Clearly, in your case you weren't irresponsible at all.
2/c-3a Coarse hair med. density.
Protein sensitive but can use occasionally
Highly porous. Color over grey.
I love all the Curl Junkie products and use CJ CCCL as my main styler. Still hoping for 2nd day hair....
Every day is a gift