Now, with all that charitable hair detangling intervention you've gifted him with, has he ever brought a comb (or other hair tool ... or fingers) to your hair??
So true about men just cutting it short. Some women too. I actually used to do that - had short hair much of my life just because I didn't want to deal with a wall of curls.
It's admirable for your DH to grow his hair out alongside yours. So how long since your his last BC (if we can call it that w/out smirking - I can't)? How long is his hair now?