I wasn't directing my comment at you. I was directing it at the author of the blog. The white mother. She automatically went to a place of defense. She acts like everyone should be grateful that she adopted a little black girl. As if only someone in her shoes can comment on that child's hair. For all she knows those same white ppl who love her daughter's hair could be laughing at her behind her back. We don't know. I respect someone who's willing to give input instead of staring like a nutcase. Even if what they say is mean. I get the vibe that this woman is defensive simply because she adopted a little black girl.

In short if you can't take the heat don't adopt. Because we all know the reality of our society, right or wrong, is what it is. She won't change that with a rant. If she wanted to change that she would have been more assertive with those people who approached her.

These are my curlfessions
About my hair:
weekly shampoo-HE Honey I'm Strong
daily conditioner-HE Honey I'm Strong (use as li)
go to style-Pocahontas braids

Last edited by ss40; 01-03-2013 at 06:23 PM.