I recently decided to start wearing my natural hair completely but I can't manage it, I am only 17. The back of my head and outer parts is 3b but my crown is 4a. I can easily moisturize and use olive oil on 3b parts but it does nothing for my 4a part. So I tried braid outs and twist outs but the 3b parts of my hair looks thin, no body just hanging down while 4a looks fluffy, curly, with lots of body. I am so confused there is no winning with my hair and I am afraid I will never be able to wear it out. The different textures in my hair is too obvious. Yes I am mixed. I don't know what to do. I have been natural for 2 and a half years now. Please help me. It also affects the shape of my hair.