I'm new to all this too, but what I have come across is that it depends on the product. There are products, I think more towards "jelly" types that indicate if you want to elongated the curl, apply to soaking wet hair. and if you want shrinkage the scrunched into wet hair...so I think it really depends . on the product you are using and the results you want... as far as order of products I believe is LI, then curl enhancer/cream then gel. I would think creams before gels...but hopefully someone with more info will chime in...
2b/c CG since 8/12
I have low porosity and fine/med texture. Easily
weighed down and VERY frizzy crown, with straighter under layers
Low-poo:TJ TTT, CJ GCS
LI/RO/DC: CK Satin Roots,Sevi Pumpkin, SSI Okra reconstructor, CJ SAC,CJ RM
Stylers: AG Recoil, JC SS
Jellies: CK Coil Jam, Okra gel(HG)
Gel: JC CC, Ouidad H&H gel, Ouidad moisture lock gel
Hair loves moisture
MUST Pixie diffuse.
My hair dose NOT like oils, butters or polyquats
Or glycerin in high dews