This stuff really burns me up. I cannot stand natural hair haters. My own relative (who I work with) has been making comments about my hair since I've gone natural. She has said that I looked like aunt jemima (I had twists in and my slouchy beanie over them). She has called me an old lady. It's like just because
she doesn't understand natural hair, she has to comment on what she thinks about it. She's relaxed and colors her hair. Sometimes I don't like it but I don't feel its my place to tell her that especially if she likes it. Its her head.