Hair type is relatively unimportant when choosing ingredients/products because they are transient based on the right products/techniques/weather, etc. It is your hair properties that matter. I may have missed it, but didn't see your texture.
My hair has always satiated on products, even back in my shampoo/conditioner only days. I wet, use a rinse out and style every day. Seldom let myself use any one product more then once in five days--if that. So, I'd try rotating products.
I was allergic to the original Shea M li, so was hesitant to try the mass produced products when they first became available (my hair prefers the more natural products from the online, boutique type companies.) I finally bought a few. While I use a lot of really rich products, I feel that these are way too heavy for me--I'm sure it's just the formulation.
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity
modified CG, since April '07
CG since 3/11/08
HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me