Oh - and as for oils and your issues, some people's hair don't react we'll to oils. Sometimes it depends on the oil, too. If you are using a penetrating oil, that may weigh your hair down. Lighter oils like Grapeseed or jojoba may be better to try than EVCO or EVOO (which do penetrate the hair shaft.)
Technique can be an issue, too. Many of us find oil best applied in VERY small amount (a few drops!) on very wet hair, or a small amount rubbed into your palms and then smoothed onto dry hair to tame frizz, flyaways, or dryness.
2c/3a/3b, Fine/med, Dense, high porous, & normal elas.
Lo-poo - Renpure Keratin, SMR, Giovanni SaS
clarifying - mix Johnson's H2T with low poo
Co-wash - Suave Nats. clar. or coco.
RO - GVPCB, Ion Eff. Care, TN.
LI - SMR, Cure Care, or RO
Seal - MO or Jojoba
DT - + honey, ACV, & EVOO to SM masque & GVPCB
PT - Gelatin!, CNPF
Styling - FSG, AIF, BRHG, LALS/PS, GF curl spray gel, SM Souffle/Smoothie, LOOB
Oils - MO!, EVOO, jojoba, GSO, SM Elixer, EVCO, VO5 Hairdressing