I really like this one: Kiss My Face, OHC, Upper Management, Styling Gel, Grapefruit, 8 fl oz (236 ml) - iHerb.com

It only has pathenol really low in the list. Humectants are also really bad in high humidity. I live in a VERY high humidity area and this gel saved my hair! I also used Kinky Curly Knot Today (humectant free) as leave in and that also really helped!