The reason I won't cut more layers into my hair is because I need my hair to be able to be pulled back. I'm an equestrian and also play in a wedding quartet- can't have those curls popping in front of my music!! I do think that I'll just have to stick with my definition and pineappleing at night. At least my night pineapples give me a BIT more lift than normal.
Thanks for making me feel like I wasn't a weird freak! My hair is very sensitive. I'll take all of your suggestions in mind!
3a/b fine, high porosity, medium density. Mod- CG
Low-Poo: 50/50 mix of EVOO and L'oreal EverSleek
Co-wash: TRESemme Naturals, or Suave naturals
Leave in: TRESemme Naturals Radiant volume
Summer styler: LA Looks sport gel(summer only)
Seal: Liquid lubricant/water
Winter styler: KCCC, AIF, Beyond the Zone Noodlehead curling creme(not CG)
DT: GVPCB, coconut oil
Embracing(or trying to) my curls.