Thanks for all these replies. I worry that with fine fine hair (I've got lots of it, but the strands are crazy fine) the flat iron may just toast it. I like the idea of washing at night -- though there's still the problem of it being cold in the house! Maybe I can try diffusing again. My hair tends to get big (not in the good way) fast, but I can try to be more careful than in the past . . . Thanks for your input!
3b, fine, medium density, low porosity
CG for 10+ years!
Wash: CJ Daily Fix
Rinse-out: CJ Argan/Olive, Regis Olive Oil, something by Giovanni?
DT: CJ Hair Rehab, CJ Repair Me
Leave-in: CJ CCCC Lite
Styling: Deva Styling Lotion (HG!!)