I'm sure it wasn't personal, D-N; people were just trying to avoid a situation that may have caused problems in the past. "Favorite posters" threads often turn into popularity contests, and many of us want to avoid that possibility.

Some of us are on the wry side, and may have unintentionally sounded unkind. I'm sure there's no sour grapes.

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