I've used them both a few times. Thought I'd like the Curl Defining Gel better--Touchably Soft Conditioning Gel has a little "graininess" to it. When dry, they are both really nice. The ingredients are different enough that I'd suggest that you try them both. They are really inexpensive and don't have chemicals. Since I rotate products and rarely use anything more then once a week, I like to have a lot to choose from.
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity
modified CG, since April '07
CG since 3/11/08
HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me