I thought it was an interesting read and thought I would share.
For me, it took me forever to learn how to take care of my curly hair. Literally forever. I was trying all types of products and I see the correlation with sex. The comparing our relationships (compare my hair to others), trying out a whole bunch of random people (trying products), returning them back to where they came from (hoping I didn't throw away my receipt LOL), and repeating the vicious cycle. I would do the same ish with my hair.