Yes post a pic please.
1. Why do you have to shower at night? Some people no matter what hair type even people with straight hair swear that they absolutely must shower in the morning. I am one of those people. I don't know if it is my hair or sleeping pattern or a combo of both but my hair is absolutely a rats nest every morning and nothing helps but putting it under the shower.
2. Grow out your bangs IMO. Pin them back or to the side or wear headband.
3. Layers are a good thin in general. But not poorly cut layers. Curly layers should be cut when the hair is dry so that they enhance the curl pattern and so that the curls mesh well. And lots of layers are key. Should not look like a staircase. Layers should be subtle.