I have the same problem, and I do the same thing (darn ezcema, lol). It never occurred to me that it might be the conditioner. I just bought a bottle of TRESemme NATURALS Silicone-free conditioner with aloe vera avocado. It also says to rinse out but the ingredients are different than the 10 bottles of VO5 Moisture Milks I have stockpiled in my bathroom. I will try it today.
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