Thanks all for the quick replies!
My hair drove me crazy so I started with a clean slate yesterday evening. For now, I'll continue using my current conditioner as I bought the bottle only three weeks ago and it is too expensive to just let it sit there and change to a different one (really, the prices over here are even worse than in the US). Also, I do find that it really moisturises my hair without weighing it down.
However, I will definitely try the massaging technique. It sounds so logical and simple; I feel pretty stupid for not having thought of that myself :-P Also, I have been thinking about washing it twice a week instead of just once. Does anyone have any experience with increasing the times you wash your hair? I've been washing it once a week for almost my entire life and I've never had any problems.
F - LP - HD - NE
Fine, low porosity, high density, normal elasticity
Low poo: Probably getting Burt's Bees Very Volumizing Pomegranate Shampoo
Rinse-out: Looking for a new one
Protein: IAgirl's gelatine treatment
Styling: KCCC (when it's in stock again)
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