All my life I've always wanted my curly hair flatter...the flatter the better! Due to the new Trend though Id like to try proofing it on days when I want to wear a quick pony tail or bun but have a cute poof to make it look a little dressier. However anytime I try proofing, I end up with a crazy frizzy mess or it disappears. I'm obviously doing something wrong. I've tried wet and dry but results always end up bad. Anyone have any pointers for a new poofer?