^ That is very true. The oldest child can get it worse, in some situations, but it seemed like something more to me.

I think about abuse situations I am familiar with and... i don't want to go into great detail but it reminds me of a childhood friend. He actually took off his shirt in front of me and another friend to show us what was happening to him. He wanted to show someone. It was physical abuse alone, and the beatings/marks were placed where clothes would cover them.

Uh, anyway, that truly just felt and looked like more but my head will go there.
When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??