KKKT and Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Milk are my favorite Not DIY leave in conditioners. My most favorite DIY leave in, and which also serves as a gel/styler for my 4a hair is 3 tbsp aloe Vera gel plus 1 tbsp jojoba oil. Optional, add 1 1/2 tsp glyerin. My hair loved glycerin regardless of weather but I may be an exception. I use all on my midneck length (if hair is stretched) 4a curly fro.