I, too, always thought that my hair was SUPER coarse. My hair was always relatively healthy compared to others and SUPER dense. That's why it seems thick... in the end I turned out to be fine, too!
At hip length, going for mid-thigh!
M MP HE HD (med text, med por, high elast, high dens)
Clarify: Nivea Intense Repair
Lo-poo: Nature's Gate CR
RO: TBS Rainforest Moisture, etc
LI: Elvive volume collagen, KCKT
Seal: Grapeseed oil
Gel: Kiss My Face
PT: EO Keratin co
Hair growth stim.: JBCO+EVCO
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