I also prefer soft hair. Cant stand crunchy hair.
I first apply conditioner as a leave in in soaking wet hair all over the hair then i apply flax seed gel over and a little bit argan oil or evoo to the ends. I fingerrake the products in my hair to minimize frizz.
Its important to first apply a leave in and then a gel.
3c hair, high porosity, mediumdensity, low elasticity, fine hair.
Curly hair routine/regime:
Combine the modified cg-method (low poo) and a modified tightly curly method.
-Condition and leave in: Aubrey Organics, Giovanni Barzilian keratin and argan oil
-Sealer: shea butter, Argan, olive and coconutoil
-Gel: homemade flaxseed gel, Kinky curly custard, Queen Helene Curl royal shaping creme.