For the record, the main reason this bothers me is not any of the ones discussed so far. It's the effort to try to impose a standard for Black beauty upon Black people. White people have those messed-up standards - we don't need them, and we don't need a Black beauty ideal.
Originally Posted by Amneris
Is it Clairol hair colour that has the slogan "You, only better!"? That's what I think of here.