Thanks so much for your reply! I know what you mean, I am so overwhelmed now with all the different products people on here use and I just have no idea where to start. I will check out the DevaCare, thanks for the advice. I think I will start pineappling this week, I've read a lot on here that it makes a really huge difference. For after wash products, what do you use? mousse, gel, serum etc.? I'm not sure what I should be using to keep my hair frizz free without weighing it down.