Lucky!!!! My mom won't let me transition. She said that my hair looked bad( you could se my curl pattern; it was so beautiful) and made me get a perm. Now, I'm thinking about doing the big chop if she'll let me. I think it would be much easier, because once it's cut, she can't don anything about it!!
Sorry!! I got way off topic. To answer your question,I've heard that scalp massaging and plenty of water is good, but I think you should just cut the rest of the relaxed ends off if you're confident enough. Btw, I'm 13 too. Good Luck!!

Last edited by gymluv; 03-04-2013 at 06:02 PM.