Not really following what you mean?
Do you mean why aren't we socializing on the sites? Or in person?
Why would you think social media websites would make ppl interact more in person?
And are you including NC into the "social websites?" I think a lot of us have met other boardies inperson but we live all over and just having curly hair doesn't exactly guarantee a strong bond. LOL
I guess it's all socialization of one type or another.