Hit:
Jojoba oil as a prepoo, very detangling

Remembering that it isn't all things that work for all people and opting for a modified wash and go w/o gel. I am doing my hair so I haven't seen the results yet, but the anxiety bug stopped biting me when I made that decision, lol.

SL
~APL~BSB~BSL~MBL~
WL

You never stop learning...