I have no advice as all the other curlies have suggested but all I can say is my apologizes. I hope you can update us all on your progress from this mess. It hurts to know how rude Ms. Massey was, especially since her book is seen as a 'curly girl bible.' Once again, I am sorry and I hope all this for you means that in the end your hair will end up better than before.
Medium, high porosity, thick density, & normal elasticity, *mod cg* 3b/c
Shampoo: Giovanni's TTT Shampoo
Detangle Cond: Suave moroccan cond.
Leave-In: Cantu Shea butter
Sealer: SM Elixir
PT: *IAGirl's PT or Giovanni's Smooth as Silk
DT: Aussie's moist 3 minute miracle
My Current Hair