I have no advice as all the other curlies have suggested but all I can say is my apologizes. I hope you can update us all on your progress from this mess. It hurts to know how rude Ms. Massey was, especially since her book is seen as a 'curly girl bible.' Once again, I am sorry and I hope all this for you means that in the end your hair will end up better than before.
High Porosity, Fine, Low Density, Low Elasticity
Suave, V05, ACV rinses, CO, and Gelatine PT.
Curls