I hear extreme fatigue and weight gain and I have to wonder if there's any possibility you are pregnant?
I have the same issues - running around all day, multiple commitments, multi-tasking, family / home / work / side projects, lots of pressure to achieve etc. There's not enough time to really take care of myself and relax. I think a lot of women can relate.
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