I've tried all three of those products. My hair is medium coarse and it likes both the CJ shampoo and the CCCCL. I used Daily Fix for awhile but missed the lather I got with shampoo, and I also found it hard to distribute, especially as my hair got longer. The CCCCL is almost lotiony in its consistency and has great slip - I didn't need a lot of it to get the results I wanted. Hope that helps.
I experienced the same difficulties in trying to figure out my properties, and finally broke down and got the hair analysis done. Best money I've spent on my hair - no more guesswork.
Sulfate/non-water-soluble silicone free since 8/16/10
Med-coarse, normal porosity, low elasticity
Dye-free since 11/2010