Hi, it sounds too me like you might be getting too much protein? You can research protein on this forum. I think too much protein makes your hair frizzy and stiff. So you may want to check the ingredients on the products you do use. Or you can just type the product name into the search bar under the PRODUCTS tab and see if any of the symbols indicate protein or not. Other than that, if you find your hair is very dry, try a moisturizing leave-in conditioner.

This is all I can suggest, as I am also fairly new here. Hope it helps.
2b/c, fine, low-med porosity
Co-Wash: Live Clean Fresh Water Conditioner
Leave-In: Yes To Carrots Leave-in Conditioner
Styler: Herbal Essences Totally Twisted Curl Boosting Mousse, FSG, GF Pure Clean Gel