That Aubrey Organics honeysuckle rose conditioner is absolutely the most disgusting-smelling, did-absolutely-nothing-for-my-hair, conditioner I have ever used! I bought it based on recommendations here, but realized the formula changed last year, and the good recs were for the old formula!
Kinky Curly Knot Today is AWESOME for detangling, and I use it as a leave-in sometimes. For RO, I like Yes to Cucumbers or GVP Conditioning Balm.
My hair doesn't have the same props as you, but those are good ones I've found. HTH.
2C-3A/ Coarse/ Normal to high porosity/ SW Florida
Wash: CJ Daily Fix, AIA Coco Cowash, Trader Joe's TTT condish, Shea Moisture MRS
CO: CJ Smoothing, Curly Kinks Renew, Darcy's Pumpkin, CJ Curl Rehab, Regis Olive Oil
Enhancers: Okra gel, FSG, Uncle Funky's CM, CJ Pattern Pusha, KMF Upper Mgmt
I always top with a gel: MGA sculpting, Giovanni LAN, Spiral Solutions FHG, JC Spiralicious
Other loves: Coconut oil soaks & pre poo, Jane Carter N&S