I like to lean in to the bowl of the diffuser. I'm not patient enough for the pixie curl method, but I'm also not prone to frizz.

I get weird shapes when I diffuse upside down, but I suspect I have shorter layers than you, so that explains it.

Honestly, it took me a long time to learn to get it right. An embarrassingly long time. Be patient with yourself.

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