I don't think you are in the wrong about not wanting this. If you don't want it, you don't want it.
That said, I grew up military, to me a place is a place. If the work was in Ohio, I'd go to Ohio, it's how I was raised. It's not easy making a new life, new friends, etc, but people do it all the time.
I guess the real question is what do you really want? Your fiancee has an opportunity to work, to help provide for you but it involves moving. What will be the long term cost if he stays with you, or if he goes without you. What are you willing to risk?
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Modified CG since Dec 2011
Growing out super short cut
High porosity, fine, unknown curl type, somewhere in the 2s at the moment
Mostly low poo
Current rotation includes:
Wash: Yes To Carrots -Condition: Yes to Cucumber, Nature's Gate Jojoba, One C - Stylers: Deva volumizing foam, Deva UDG B'Leave In, Foxy Curls Hi-Def Curl spray