I don't think one should "take one for the team" when it comes to having kids.

Right, wrong or indifferent ( I was just having this conversation), I think a lot of women start to have different thoughts about having/not having kids when you reach 35 and don't have kids yet.

It may mean the end of her marriage but I don't think it's something you should just give up. tough decisions
Originally Posted by scrills
I was thinking this too..I mean that's not something that you just take for the team, lol.