She doesn't take what I say to offensive though. The only time I say rude things to her is when she attacks me for no reason and wants make fun of a innocent girl in the hallway. I always tell her what I may say will offend so if you want me to stop just say so. She doesn't. When we get out of hand we apologize to each other. I try my best not to degrade her, but when she asks for my opinion I'm going to her my opinion.