I know you're in Europe and don't have access to the same products that we do. Can you pick something up?? If you use the products, you'll continue to have the issues.
The other thing that I would suggest is making Okra Gel and/or FSG. You add the ingredients, so you can control the product. They may give you some other options.
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity
modified CG, since April '07
CG since 3/11/08
HGs: Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; DM MiraCurls Curling Gelly; UFD Curly Magic; Shescentit LIs; Sevi conditioners; Botanical Spirits Puree, CJ Repair Me