You're right. I've never been consist with my hare care. I think it was because I sort of gave up. But what do I have to lose? I think I'll try the co-washing only method and stop using bentonite clay [for my hair]. I'm thinking of my "shampoo" being the I am Me Coconut Cowash. And I'm thinking of trying the Aussie Moist 3-minute miracle because I've really only heard good things about it. However I'm not sure if the ingredients are healthy for my hair, I'll have to check first. I think I should get a leave-in conditioner too, I have no idea which one though. I'm also thinking of trying hairfinity pills because my diet is also very bad and I know I'm not getting the vitamins and nutrients needed for healthy hair.