For a soft feel, try some creams! I like alba botanicals soft hold cream and AG recoil. The softness you're experiencing is most likely due to you conditioning it properly.
2C-3A/ Coarse/ Normal to high porosity/ SW Florida
Wash: CJ Daily Fix, AIA Coco Cowash, Trader Joe's TTT condish, Shea Moisture MRS
CO: CJ Smoothing, Curly Kinks Renew, Darcy's Pumpkin, CJ Curl Rehab, Regis Olive Oil
Enhancers: Okra gel, FSG, Uncle Funky's CM, CJ Pattern Pusha, KMF Upper Mgmt
I always top with a gel: MGA sculpting, Giovanni LAN, Spiral Solutions FHG, JC Spiralicious
Other loves: Coconut oil soaks & pre poo, Jane Carter N&S