This is true but at the end of the day leaders are the primary/end decision makers and minorities and women need more representation.
I didn't see this at all. Like you said, society does have to change, but it has to start with women/girls. If women don't accept women being assertive, it'll be harder for men to do so. I think it's important for girls to know what's important and what's not(approval for being 'ladylike').