do you seal? i find that makes the difference for me. i cannot use oils, but my hair loves spiral solutions emollience butter and jane carter nourish and shine. others use grape seed oil, and lots of other oils. you can do a search on sealing, lots of threads, tips.
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3a, some 2c & 3b, medium texture, porosity normal, low elasticity
washing/cowashing, conditioning, protein tx: curl junkie products
leave in:cj conditioners and treatments as leave in
styling: cj pattern pusha, cj honey butta leave in, cj cccc, cj ciab, lalsg. cj aloe fix gel is my high dews/summer HG!!
sealants - spiral solutions emollience butter, jane carter nourish & shine