Yes I am one of "those" that scrunches the crunch out. Actually I agree that sometimes you do need the crunch to make your curls look more presentable. However, I like the frizzy look sometimes. Anyway, I would suggest trying the Deva gels. Whenever I got my deva cut a few months ago they used it and I hated it cause it made my hair look really perfect/ defined and I didn't like how it controlled my hair so much. So I am assuming that you would probably like it haha.
Shea Moisture, Kinky Curly, & Curl Junkie = ride or die

*Current Routine*
LP: SM RSB
CO: SM RSB, SM SFC
DC: SM Masques (the vegan ones), DIY
LI: a CO, KCKT, CJ SL
Sealers: an oil, SM Elixir, JC N&S
Stylers: *just CO usually; KCCC, Aloe, FSG
Once in a while: ACV, Lemon-Aid

Oils to seal, RO, and/or pre-poo as needed

2c/3a/3b coarse, normal porosity
CG since 2007