I think it's very good that he is willing to go to the doctor and psychiatrist. A lot of men wouldn't. I do agree with Geeky as far as putting any pressure on him, but if you are like me I don't like any foreign objects inside me. Of course there are other ways to orgasm in the bedroom other than intercourse, but at such a young age I would think he would want to find out what is going on. I'd also feel hurt that he was looking at other women. It sounds like you have been communicating, but I'd be curious what the psychiatrist feels about what is going on. Is he opening up with you on this?