I'm sorry this happened to you, Wiregirl. Frankly, I wouldn't waste one second on this guy.
Maybe it wouldn't have been any easier for you in person, but he wasn't thinking of YOUR comfort when he did it by email - he was just being a sniveling, cowardly creep.
He took the easy way out. He didn't "man up." Screw him and move on. You deserve much better.
2/c and some 3A. Modified CG.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
Best 1st day method: Super Soaker
Conditioners: Curl Junkie Beauticurls Strengthening Conditioner,
Deep condish: Curl Junkie Curl Rehab
Stylers: Experimenting with cones & sulfates while the dews are high. Sometimes try roller sets - classic glamor but I prefer my curls.
Every day is a gift