So I have to comment here because my hair is just the same way (as the bolded part), and so I got some AOMM last week and they appear to have added GLYCERIN.
Judging from your comment here and the products in your sig that must be a new thing - yes? My hair is soooo angry. I also tried the Loma curvature but I think my hair is also ticked off about the aloe in that.
Back to my cheap-o HETT mousse and GVPCB DTs for me! Doesn't always keep my hair un-frizzy but at least it doesn't become a dry tangly mess!
Mod CG since 5/10, 2b/3a, med width/density, low/med porosity, greying since 18, color over grey since 21
Hair hates: non-keratin protein, glycerin, sorbitol, agave, sulfates, polyquats, co-washing (flaky scalp), maybe aloe?
Hair loves: fewer/more natural ingredients, moisture
Scalp wash: Selsun Blue naturals or reg when desperate
Low poo: Giovanni TTTT
RO: SN - Strawberry, ES
Style: HETT mousse, FSG if I make it, ??