My HGs are pure coconut oil, which I use a pre-wash treatment and a sealer, and curl junkie rehab, which I'll use as an deep conditioner and leave in. Both of these absolutely saved my hair! I also co-wash using curl junkie smoothing conditioner and occasionally low-poo with a leonor greyl shampoo. I also think you might want to try a protein treatment if you are high-po, but I don't have any recommendations as I'm looking for one myself, lol!
Just starting CG! 5-13

2A, fine, dense, high porosity, highlighted

low-poo: Leonor Greyl bain vitalisant b*
co-wash: CJ smoothing*
RO: ^, SS Caitlin's*
DT: CJ rehab
LI: CJ rehab
stylers: CJ CCCC*
oils: coconut


*experimenting
HG

loves: aloe, oils, esp. coconut
hates: acv, baking soda
on the fence about polyquats