I tried Shea Moisture products early on and they were all heavy, we have slightly different properties but my current faves are in my siggy. I definitely recommend trying products that focus on protein rather than moisture and it will almost certainly help to cut out the CCCCL and try a HARD hold gel like BRHG or that LA Looks one .... I am having good luck with the Volumax Mega gel from Sally's.

Frizz can be caused by build-up, glycerin, too much moisture, drying to roughly or with a regular towel, ..... Unfortunately its all trial and error.
2A / F / MD / LP / ?E / BSL --- CG since Dec. 2012

This is what I'm happiest with right now.
Co-wash: CJ DailyFix
Lo-poo: DermOrganic low-poo
RO: SS Caitlin's co
Leave-in: SheScentIt Okra Repair condish
PT: SS Caitlin's + SS PT
Stylers: Volumax Mega Gel, Max Green Styling Gel, DermOrganics Spray Gel
Techniques: Plopping & Pixie Diffusing.
glycerin, honey, oils & butters Protein!