I'm still experimenting with the leave-in and not sure what to think about it, but I did change something in my current routine based on the advice I got here. Instead of always using my spray bottle to re-wet my hair, I simply use the shower head and it saves me a lot of time! It still takes some time before it's soaking wet, but it doesn't have to be like that anyway. So thanks for the tips! No product overload for me anymore. Completely cutting out the polyquats has helped as well.
F - LP - HD - NE
Fine, low porosity, high density, normal elasticity
Low poo: Burt's Bees Very Volumizing Pomegranate Shampoo
Protein: IAGirl's gelatine treatment
Detangler & LI: KCKT
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